Sisterhood
I think its time to put away all the drama. It is time to come together and unite. My vision is to create a sisterhood and a support system. Even though I have yet to choose a sorority, I admire their bond. But, what if you never make it to college? That means that you would not have a chance to partake in the unity. What if you are in college, but do not fit the "description" or cannot get in. While standards should remain and be set high, my vision would be just a sisterhood. That's it. Doesn't matter the background, GPA, body structure etc. It would be my dedication to your girls because they will grow to be beautiful women. They will learn from us and then teach their children. We need to have the ultimate support system. We need mentors, leaders and a bond to help other sisters out. When life gets hectic and we can't talk to mom. Sisterhood doesn't require extensive time, speaking is how it starts. Speaking and communicating is very beneficial and it opens up a welcoming door. So, the next time you walk into a beauty salon packed with beautiful sisters, speak and engage. Have enough confidence to downplay negativity. Speak and see what happens. Someone will speak back and if not, oh well! Let us break the cycle of judging. We quickly judge or are afraid to get to know our own people. Statements like "I don't need her all up in my business" -people actually only know what you tell them. Being a respectable and polite person does not mean spilling all your business and the juicy gossip. In other words, let us build!! Starting today, build a new network and who knows a new friendship!! Through the positive moment I have build new friendships with Clever, TierraDivaStyle, Tiff Biff, Primary Thoughts (aliases of course) just to name a few. I do not know them personally, but we have created a bond... It's so wonderful to meet other beautiful women.
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